Bondage and Sex
Some people enjoy being tied up and their actions are restricted. They have to do exactly what their partner wants and do not have much of a choice about it. There is something erotic when it comes to bondage. There are many different types of items that can be used for their binding purposes. Some of these items can be purchased online or through the local porn shop. For those that just want to try they can start with belts, handcuffs, and other straps. The items should be restrictive but not painful.
They should not cut of the circulation of blood. The dominate person will be in complete control and be will able to use the submissive person for whatever they want. They can tease them, punish them, and the submissive person has to follow along. The couple needs to be able to trust each other in order for this to be successful. Ropes are often used. Neckties and belts can be used as well. They often bind the hands together and can be used behind the back or to objects such as chairs. The feet can be tied apart and bound to other objects as well. It is best to use a nautical rope so that it will be comfortable and a person will not be in pain. Straps can be used and are often made of leather or nylon. They are used to bind the hands and the feet. They are more restrictive and for some more fun. Cuffs including handcuffs are used mainly on the wrists. They can be made from metal or leather. Velcro cuffs are also becoming popular. They can be used on the hands to bind them to another part of the body or another object. Be sure to put the key to the handcuffs in a safe place if they are being used. When a couple is using chains they need to be extra careful. Chains can be used to help support the cuffs that are placed on the hand. Look for chains that have a clean finish and will not tighten on their own. Be sure the chains have a quick release feature just in case something were to do wrong. Bars are used to separate the legs or the hands from each other. The BDSM bar is usually around two to three feet long. This will allow the dominate to control the submissive and have access to the area of the body that they want. Be sure the bars are secure so that they do not come lose and hit some. Suspension devices can be a lot of fun if they are used correctly. These devices can be used to raise someone off of the ground. They will be almost handing in the area. These devices are not recommended for people that are just getting into BDSM. They take a little bit of practice and will need to be properly installed so that a person does not fall during sex. There are a number of other items that can be used for the purpose of BDSM play. There are gymnastic horses, racks, benches, and many other items. They may take up a lot of space in the home. A person should have enough room for these items. Many people have separate rooms in their home or living area that are set up for bondage and BDSM play. This way they have enough room to use all of these items and do not have to explain to others what they are used for. Some people also have a dungeon equipped with these items as well. This will allow them to train the submissive person. Be sure to check all the items before use. They need to be in proper working order. If something is damaged it can lead to injury and ruin the mood.